Committal
Debra Clontz Kirby, 71, of Morganton, NC passed away, after a courageous battle with cancer, on Wednesday, November 26, 2025. She was born on September 3, 1954 in Burke County to the late Thomas Nelson Clontz and Elizabeth Jane Annis Clontz. Debra was a member of Arney’s Fairview Global Methodist Church. She first worked as a schoolteacher in Burlington, NC. Later, she became a social worker where she was an advocate for mental health. This is where Debra collaborated with her companion for the need to operate Adult Care Homes.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by a niece, Chelsea Marie Parry; former husband, Benny Kirby.
Those left to cherish her memory are a great-niece and great-nephews, Alleigh, Vincent and Wyatt; sister, Janet Clontz Bush; nieces and nephews, Joshua Bush, Jesse Bush and Christopher Clontz; brother, James Michael Clontz; and many cousins.
The family will receive friends from 11am-1pm on Wednesday, December 3, 2025 at Sossoman Funeral Home. A Celebration of Life will begin at 1pm in the Colonial Chapel of the funeral home with Rev. Steve Parker officiating.
Memorial contributions may be made to Camp Bow Wow.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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My condolences to Ms.Kirby’s family, friends and all who knew her. It was a pleasure knowing her. A astute woman with a nice spirit. May God rest her soul and bless her loved ones with peace and strength.
Deb was an amazing mentor, boss, and friend. My life is infinitely better because I knew her. I love her so much. Keeping Jan and family in my prayers.
Debra, Thank you for all you did for me, I know I bent your ear a few hundred times or more, you were the best ever listener!! I will miss your feedback immensely. I am going to tip a hairy coo for you, ride on and rest in peace!
My deepest regret to have lost such a spirited soul as Debra. She would always have an upbeat attitude when we would talk on the phone about work. I will truly miss her wit and undeniable charm that would instantly make you feel like you known her for years. My prayers for the family. Candice S.
I'm so sorry to hear about Debra! I went to church with her and have known her pretty much my whole life. Family you are all in my prayers!!
My Lady you were so Special. I will miss you dearly. Beautiful soul, now a angel above us. I will always remember the wise words you share. I will always carry them with me. ❤️
Dear Debra, Thank you for allowing me to be your friend since 2016. Your keen insight and leadership was my go to for advice and calming. You will be missed, but heaven is now a better place with you there. Love you! Don Wright Vero Beach, FL
It was an honor to serve with her with NCPL. What an outstanding Lady, advocate and soul who will be missed.
PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES FOR ALL THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY GOD GIVE ALL COMFORT AND PEACE KNOWING SHES 🙏 WITH THE LORD,NO MORE PAIN& SUFFERINGS LYNN&JUDY ALEXANDER
Debra was a great woman and a great cousin. I always looked up to Debra. She was so smart and intelligent. Debra will be deeply missed. Debra ran many adult care homes and took good care of the clients